9am-5pm: Domestic Violence and the Workplace.
Domestic violence, through its very name, tends to conjure images of abuse happening behind closed doors and away from the rest of life. But domestic violence doesn’t take a break between 9am-5pm.
- Intimate partner violence victims lose a total of nearly 8.0 million days of paid work—the equivalent of more than 32,000 full-time jobs—and nearly 5.6 million days of household productivity as a result of the violence. (US Center for Disease Control)
- Over 75% of offenders used workplace resources at least once to express remorse or anger, check up on, pressure, or threaten the victim. (Maine Department of Labor and Family Crisis Services study)
- The health-related costs of rape, physical assault, stalking, and homicide by intimate partners exceed $5.8 billion each year. ((US Center for Disease Control))
- 94% of corporate security directors rank partner violence as a high security problem. (National Safe Workplace Institute survey)
- 74% of victims are harassed at work by their abuser. (Report on Costs of Domestic Violence)
- An estimated 24–30% of abused working women lose their jobs due to their domestic violence situation. (Prisoners of Abuse)
- Over 70% of United States workplaces have no formal program or policy that addresses workplace violence. (Bureau of Labor Statistics)
While some may believe that employers have no right or responsibility in addressing domestic violence, they certainly have a role to play. The financial costs of domestic violence are high, as is the security risk and the potential for abusers to use company resources to abuse.
But what can employers do? Here’s a list of ways employers can help address this issue:
- Create a workplace violence policy that specifically addresses domestic violence. Tips for creating a policy can be found here. Buffalo State College has a great example of a domestic violence policy. Note that they will vary depending on the size of the employer, employer needs, etc.
- Consider ways to help victims remain safe at work. This may include getting an emergency contact for the employee in case they don’t show up to work, having a co-worker walk with them to and from their car, screening phone calls, posting a picture of the abuser in case they show up at the workplace, and making certain that no one gives out personal information. This safety plan should be created by the victim, with support from the employer (i.e. don’t post a picture of the abuser without the victim expressing their desire to have this happen).
- Consider ways to deal with employees who are perpetrating domestic violence. This may include determining if there is an immediate safety risk, providing or supporting time-off for counseling, policies surrounding the use of workplace resources to abuse, and under what circumstances to suspend or terminate.
- Provide training for employees. Studies show that most employees believe workplace programs focusing on domestic violence help them understand and address the issue. Training may include helping employees to recognize signs of an abusive relationship, processes for reporting domestic violence, tips on talking to co-workers about abuse, and how to access community resources. Trainings should help employees feel empowered and ensure that they will not be “outed” or penalized if they seek help.
Does your workplace have a workplace violence policy? How has your employer addressed workplace violence? How do you think employers should respond to domestic violence?
Resources for businesses/organizations wanting to address domestic violence:
Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Services of Whatcom County: Available for trainings of any length on workplace violence and community resources; free and confidential advocacy-based counseling for employees (available at the workplace or at DVSAS), safety planning for individuals and employers, assistance in debriefing trauma following an abusive incident in or affecting the workplace. Business Line: (360)671-5714, Hotline: (360)715-1563
Bellingham-Whatcom County Commission Against Domestic Violence: Assistance creating domestic violence policy and plans.
The Corporate Alliance to End Partner Violence has tons of great resources, including statistics, tips for helping victims and abusers, safety planning in the workplace and more!


April 22nd, 2009 at 4:57 pm
And what do you do when you reach out for help, and the “Police” tell you that they “can’t do anything” because you didn’t report it when it was happening? What do you do when the “authorities” refuse to press charges, or worse, tell you that you *can’t* press charges because *he* has a tiny self-inflicted scratch on his chest — so they “have to” press charges against both of you?
April 22nd, 2009 at 5:26 pm
Unfortunately, the criminal justice system does not always work in the victim’s favor. While there are many, many cases in which law enforcement and the legal system provided justice and support, there are also cases, not unlike what you mentioned, that really demonstrate the injustice and inequalities that still exist. We certainly have worked with victims on both sides of that coin. I empathize with those people who are trying to reach out, get help, and stay safe and are not supported or are vilified in the process. How frustrating to have that experience. It can definitely color your view of law enforcement and the system as a whole, making it seem downright ridiculous to try and ever report again.
What I can say is that getting the support from an agency like ours (DVSAS) can help. We can sometimes help victims find the right person to talk to, find other legal options, and give support through the process. In fact, we often have law enforcement come to us, so that people are able to make reports from the comfy couches here at DVSAS rather than head down to the station. Advocates are there to assistance making a police report and can follow-up on any questions, misgivings, or, in some cases, issues with law enforcement response. And when we know about a certain negative pattern that is persisting, we can start a larger discussion with our allies in the criminal justice/legal systems to see how those issues can be addressed.
I’m sorry to hear you had such a difficult, disempowering, and unjust response when trying to report. Some victims say that being treated in that way feels almost as powerless and abusive as the domestic violence itself. I definitely empathize with your anger; there is nothing worse than reaching out for help and being so brashly and unjustly turned down.
April 25th, 2009 at 10:42 am
This is another one of those lame Herald schlogs. No response to questions and few updates. Lame, lame, lame.
April 25th, 2009 at 2:40 pm
Nate, I responded to your post under “Why Victims Stay in Abusive Relationships” on April 21. It replies to your comment and has a link to a report you might be interested in. I didn’t reference your name in it so you may have missed that it was a reply to your comment. I’ve actually responded to everyone’s questions.
April 26th, 2009 at 8:24 pm
The INJUSTICE system also told me — after he assaulted three other people — that he’d be serving 10 years. They lied — he only got SEVEN MONTHS, and now he’s out there somewhere, doing the same sh*t to some other woman. I hope like hell she castrates him with a dull rusty spoon.
April 28th, 2009 at 7:53 am
You’re right Jenn, I apologize.
May 27th, 2009 at 7:38 am
So, no posts since April and it’s almost June? Sorry to see you have become as lame as all the rest of your compatriots pretending to run a newspaper/website.
June 26th, 2009 at 8:36 pm
It’s July and still no more from the munchkin. lame lame lame.
July 7th, 2009 at 8:37 am
Why the hell is this old news still up here? The Herald wouldn’t know it’s ass from a hole in the ground. What a bunch of useless fucks.
July 22nd, 2009 at 10:15 pm
Stick a fork in this
September 16th, 2009 at 7:52 pm
Coma tose